Forty springs.
Said out loud, it sounds like a lot.
But the truth is… they went by in the blink of an eye.
It feels like just yesterday I was 20 — full of plans, absolute certainties, and that comforting illusion that time was endless. Now, twenty years later, I look back and see everything that happened between one age and the other: a degree, two homes, three cars, a dog, a daughter, and more jobs than I can count.
And here I am. More mature (we don’t say “older”), more grounded, more myself.
Life has taught me that responsibility doesn’t have to mean rigidity. I still know how to enjoy the brilliant little moments this life gives us — the ones that appear without warning but stay forever.
And speaking of “forever,” there’s a moment that changed everything: the birth of my daughter.
Almost five years later, I’m still learning every single day. I learn about her, about myself, about the world. And I keep reinforcing the same truth: love is what truly matters. And love comes in many forms, many levels — all valid, all necessary.
This year, to celebrate my 40th birthday, I didn’t want a cake. I wanted something that, to me, is pure love: a tiramisu.
Simple, elegant, comforting — and in my opinion, one of the best Italian creations ever made. Creamy, balanced, with that touch of coffee that awakens memories and that final dusting of cocoa that ties everything together.




Delicious Tiramisu Curiosities
Tiramisu is one of those desserts that seems simple but has a history full of charm, controversy, and… romance. Literally. Let’s take a look:
1. The name literally means “pick me up”
“Tirami sù” translates to “lift me up” or “cheer me up.” And honestly, it makes perfect sense: coffee + sugar + cream = instant happiness.
2. Its origin is disputed — and even a bit scandalous
Several Italian regions claim to be the birthplace of tiramisu:
- Treviso says it was created in a local restaurant in the 1960s.
- Friuli-Venezia Giulia insists it existed earlier.
- And some say it was inspired by a “revitalizing dessert” served in certain night establishments (yes… exactly what you’re imagining).
The truth? No one knows for sure — which only makes the story more charming.
3. The original recipe didn’t include alcohol
Today, rum, marsala, or amaretto are common additions, but the traditional version was alcohol-free. The idea was that even children could enjoy it (and supposedly sleep afterwards).
4. It also didn’t include whipped cream
The classic cream is made only with:
- egg yolks
- sugar
- mascarpone
No whipped cream, no shortcuts. The silky texture came from technique, not extra ingredients.
5. The cocoa on top isn’t just decoration
Besides adding flavor and contrast, the cocoa layer:
- protects the cream
- prevents the top from getting soggy
- improves presentation
It’s the perfect “lid” for the dessert.
6. Tiramisu is a dessert of layers — and memories
Italians say each layer symbolizes something:
- the coffee awakens
- the cream comforts
- the cocoa balances
- the biscuits support
It’s almost a metaphor for adulthood, isn’t it?

Tiramisu: The Original Recipe
Ingredients
Equipment
Method
- Start by making or brewing some espresso to soak the cookies in. Set them aside to cool.
- For the cream, beat 4 tablespoons of sugar with the egg yolks until you have a light, fluffy mixture. Add the mascarpone and fold in until smooth and creamy. Set aside.
- Beat the egg whites until stiff, along with the remaining sugar and a pinch of salt. Gently fold the egg whites into the previous mixture.
- Spread a small amount of cream in the Pyrex dish you’ve chosen to serve in.
- Pour the cooled coffee into a wide bowl so it’s easy to dip the sticks in.
- Quickly dip each ladyfinger in the coffee (1 second on each side) and arrange them on the bottom of a serving dish, on top of the cream you spread earlier. Spread a generous amount of mascarpone cream over the layer of ladyfingers.
- Add another layer of soaked toothpicks and cover with the remaining cream.
- Refrigerate for at least 4 hours—ideally overnight to set properly. (At least 8 hours)
- Before serving, sprinkle generously with cocoa powder.




